Facebook.porn

Recently I posted a query on facebook attempting to figure out why facebook wants me to be friends with porn stars. I get a kick out of the friend finder function, and use it daily just to see how small a world it really is out there. I have some REALLY oddball connections, several of which have led me to question How the, What the, HUH?

Three days ago, I had three different friend suggestions, all of whom are porn stars. Now I have friends on facebook, that range from real rock stars, authors, celebrities etc, some of whom I have known for over 30 years. I do have a few friends that DO make porn, and pretty much lead two very separate lives. I personally don't care, I like people that have secrets and dirty sides. there is a certain amount of dichotomy within everyone. I find the suit and tie, nine to five business man that is covered from neck to ankles in tattoos and works as a nude model to fulfill his exhibitionistic tendencies, and the stay at home suburban mom of three by day who gets on cam4 at night and shoves cucumbers in her vagina to be just fascinating.

This being said, the mutual friends function did NOT come from any of the people I know who actually make porn in their other lives. (Thankfully Jesse Jayne did not include my father as a mutual friend) This led me to wonder, why, are you friends with a porn star on facebook? Are you that oblivious to who is checking out your profile? Can you be friends with both your mother, your boss, and the woman who posts about doing an interracial gangbang as her next release?

I use facebook to see where and what people from all corners of my life are up to. Where they have been, how they turned out, and what they are doing to go further. I do have a few questionable people on my friend list, a few who I am not sure how I know them, but if they entertain me, I am OK with that. I was friends with a fascinating woman who lived in Israel, who it turns out I had never met, and she had friend requested me by mistake. It was amazing to see her experience of living in a kibbutz for a year, and hear her take as a suburban Philadelphia Jewish woman in her 20's learn to live in the Middle east.

I have a client, incredibly successful, who is best friends with Evan Seinfeld the actor. Evan is (or was) married to Tera Patrick the porn star. I wish I could have been a fly on the wall at some of those Christmas parties, especially since his wife a Size Zero Range River Driving housewife from the mainline.

I just wonder about the confidence, or the stupidity inherent in some people that can list that they are VP of Product Development at IamGonnaTakeOvertheWorld INC. and on the same profile state their friendship with a woman (or man) that can brag that they have had sex with a dildo strapped to a washing machine agitator